'Dockery and Son' - first impressions and reactions.
The first thing that I assumed and noticed when I first read 'Dockery and Son' is that Larkin is on another train journey and I found it interesting how Larkin seems to use the train journeys in some of his poems to possibly imply that life is a journey that changes constantly and moves in different directions and speeds and in a way, that is what life is like and Larkin uses platonic and philosophical concepts and ideas to show this.
Towards the end of the poem, I feel sympathy towards the persona that Larkin is writing in as he has come to realise that he was a middle-aged man where life had just gone past him - he doesn't have children of his own, unlike Dockery and he sees loneliness as a positive thing as he sees having a family as a burden as he compares his himself to Dockery's life choice of having a son so early. In stanza three, the persona falls asleeps but to me it seems as if he had been asleep for most of his life and he is shocked about Dockery having a son and shocked about the realisation of how much of life had gone past without him even having his own family.