'Musical Moments 2.Outside a Graveyard' - Dannie Abse.

'Musical Moments 2. Outside a Graveyard'.

This poem by Abse is about the death of Miss Crouch, Abse's piano teacher. Through out the whole poem I got the impression that he is nostalgic when he reminisces about certain memories of Miss crouch and when he juxtaposes about observing her at a "romantic Moiseiwitsch concert".

Quotes and meanings.

Quote 1: "Many nearer than you have gone, too many, so your going does not touch me deeply".

Abse writes about how much of impact Miss Crouch's departure has had on him and how he feels about it. Quite frankly, Abse does not seem to be struck by her death as it is indicated that Abse has already experienced losses before of the ones he loved.

Quote 2: "yet I want to say, 'Sorry, Miss Crouch,' now that you are dismissed forever."

Here Abse is sympathetic and there also is irony. In 'Musical Moments 1' we see Abse being overjoyed when he says "O joy, Miss dismissed!". The fact that Abse now feels like apologising for the death of Miss crouch in 'Musical Moments 2' shows that he feels bad about having said that and he's looking back at the time he said it with "sounding regret". Also the tone in which Abse first said it is charismatic whereas in this poem, we see that tone fade and Abse realises that Miss Crouch has now been "dismissed forever" and so he begins to focus his attention on Miss Crouch in this poem and becomes more descriptive of every little detail.

Quote 3: "You were so unassuming and gentle. If there's a heaven, that's your address."

Abse paints an angelic picture of Miss Crouch. She is also described as being "blessed and sedate in evening dress" which creates an uplifting atmosphere even though the poem is about such a sad topic. 

Quote 4: "as if that music was making love to you".

This clearly shows that Miss Crouch was a woman with a very strong passion for music. The fact that Miss Crouch is also not married could imply that her only true love was music and that it was something in her life that could take her to another world where she could escape and show her true colours. Abse personifies the music to highlight the effect that the music had on her and the way it seemed to control her movements as she "sat thrilled in the stalls, eyes raptly shut", trying to embrace every note of the music. This shows that music also made her feel at ease. In the same stanza, Abse also juxtaposes between the past and present and he writes about how he "Once, after the war, observed you" and "Now I stare..." which shows Abse looking back at the time when Miss Crouch was alive with admiration of her music and talent.

Quote 5: "blessed and sedate in evening dress".

Again, this paints an angelic picture of Miss Crouch and she seems to be portrayed as a saint till the very end of the poem. The fact that she is in an evening dress shows that Abse is picturing her from his imagination, being dressed for a special occasion which may well be another romantic concert in Abse's mind. With the way that Abse describes Miss Crouch here, makes me also imagine how she looks and the way in which she is playing the piano. 

Quote 6: "yes, you and the piano triumphantly rising between the clouds, higher and higher".

So once again we see Miss Crouch being portrayed as saint that is making the final transition from life to a world after death and the fact that her piano goes with her shows that she was attached to the instrument and it had some sort of sentimental value. It could also show that the music that she played had an exalting effect on her audience that made them feel as if they were being purified through her music. "Rising" is a positive noun that metaphorically brings light to the poem and it glorifies Miss Crouch and her piano. Rising could also suggest the exuberance and freedom in heaven.

Links to Larkin poems.

'Ambulances'.

In this poem by Larkin, he explores the theme of death like Abse and Larkin describes the final transition from life to death also: "fastened doors recede". Similarly, Larkin shows the people's sympathy as they see the body being taken away in an ambulance: "Poor soul, they whisper at their own distress".

'For Sydney Bechet'.

The way in which Miss Crouch is describes by Abse is similar to the way Larkin writes about Sydney Bechet. Both women are full of exuberance when they play their music and it seems to give them the freedom to express themselves. Larkin praises Sydney for the music she plays: "Oh, play that thing! Mute glorious Storyvilles". We also see this being done by Abse when he writes "yes, you and the piano triumphantly rising". Both poets also write about the impact that the women's music has had on them. 

 

'Musical Moments 1. His Last Piano Lesson.' - Dannie Abse

'Musical Moments
1. His Last Piano Lesson.' - Dannie Abse.

Summary and first impressions.

From all the Abse poems I have studied and blogged about so far, this has to be the first one that I have struggled the most with in terms of finding the meanings behind words, phrases and the poem in general.

From what I managed to gather and understand from reading this Abse poem was that it is about his last piano lesson of course, but also about his experience with music coming to an end. I got the impression that Abse was not at all into music, unlike Larkin and it also seems that Abse did not enjoy his piano lessons, although his father wanted him to. I also get the feel that Abse is quite dismissive of the piano lesson because he seems to be more entertained by his surroundings than by the piano which is what he should have been focusing on, really. The fact that Abse seems easily distracted in this poem by his surroundings shows that Abse had no interest in playing the piano and that it was just something that his father wanted him to be able to do. 

Key themes and ideas.

Abse begins his poem by briefly introducing the audience to Miss Crouch, "the upright piano teacher". This first description of Miss Crouch portrays her as a well educated and formal lady like any teacher would be. In stanza one, Abse then goes onto writing about how his 'mates' knock at the back door to indicate him to go out and play with him, instead of sitting indoors in his boring piano lessons. Having said that, I can imagine Abse wanting to escape through the back door and from his piano lessons that he seems to have dread every time. 

One things I did notice on the first four stanzas of the poem, that some of you also may have picked up on as well is that the stanzas seem to describe some sort of noise going on in the background. For example, is stanza one the piano teacher "knocks" on the door and stanza two Abse describes how he heard "pointless cries of children". Stanza three Abse writes about the "backslangs and jabberwocks" and in all honesty I haven't got a clue what they mean, but I am just guessing that it has got something to do with noise which just adds to the background as well. We all something similar in stanza four as Abse depicts the park-keeper "stamping" the gravel path and "blowing" the whistle and the "shaking of umbrellas". Although the noises aren't very obvious when the poem is first read, we kind of get a hint at how loud or quiet the particular sound is. For example, we imagine the "pointless cries of children" to be rather loud and high pitched, whereas when the park-keeper is "blowing" his whistle would be a more gentle sound and the "shaking" of the umbrellas would be even more gentle and quick.  

One the final few stanzas we then see that the background noise fades just when Abse refers back to his home, downstairs where the piano lessons usually take place. Abse on stanza five, writes about how the piano lid is closed and so it looks like a "coffin of music". I think that this metaphor is powerful because it leads on to what happens next in the poem and in 'Musical Moments 2.Outside a Graveyard' where I will go into further detail on my next blog coming up. This metaphor also shows irony because music is seen as something that brings happiness, laughter and life into a room, but not in this case as we see that the music is not being played on the piano and so it is dead. It could also be seen as a metaphor for Abse's last piano lesson and so after his last lesson, the piano will no longer serve purpose in the house and Abse probably didn't intend on playing it ever again. We also see the sounds fade when Abse writes about how there were "no hectoring voices" pushing him to do something he didn't particularly enjoy doing.

Philip Larkin 'Ambulances'.

Philip Larkin - 'Ambulances' first impression and brief analysis.

First impression.

After reading 'Ambulances by Larkin, I was truly shocked at how much of a realist Larkin really is. Although Larkin uses abstract nouns to portray the meanings of things, the meanings are actually simple: we all become exposed to death as soon we are brought into the world and death is something that is inevitable no matter how rich or poor you are or were in society.

Brief analysis.

As well as picking out certain words and phrases from the poem, I thought I would also present some pictures that I think represent the words and phrases, just so you get a clear idea of what Larkin is saying visually looks like.

So, at the very beginning of the poem we all already see Larkin getting into what he does best, which is to think up of some intelligent way to depict certain images in the reader's mind:

"Closed like confessionals, they thread

Loud noons of cities".

]Here, Larkin emphasizes the cacophony within the city as the ambulance urges to its emergency. Not only is it a simile for the ambulance doors being firmly shut, but the fact that he describes the ambulance doors as being like "confessionals" shows that the person suffering in the ambulance is now being exposed to death and the person inside has now realized what death is really about.

"All streets in time are visited".

Now this line is the poem has a double meaning. The first meaning that I noted is the ambulances driving through all of the streets which is very simple. The second meaning is the fact that the ambulance will visit all of the streets because everyone must die eventually and so the ambulance can almost be seen as a motif for the early signs of someone's death, but everyone will experience death at their own pace and so the noun of "time" is key here as well. I guess you could also say that this is almost like a small paradox because being "visited" by something suggests that something good is coming to you or is going to happen, however the fact that it is an ambulance that will eventually visit everyone is not a good thing because it usually means the very first and early signs of death and we all just dread the day that one day where someone we know is taken away from us by an ambulance.

"Then children strewn on steps or road,

Or women coming from the shops

Past smell of different dinners".

In this particular section of the poem, Larkin isolates the people who are dying from the people who are still living. Larkin uses words such as "road" "shops and "dinners and this demotic, everyday vocabulary to portray the casualness of the human existence and their vulnerability to life.  Being a poet and a master of words, I thought that Larkin would have used abstract nouns to portray such a simple image of the everyday of children and women.The fact that women and children are carrying on with their lives as usual shows could possibly show their ignorance or their naivety in life. The use of the demotic vocabulary interestingly causes the topic of death to fade in the background of life.

"wild white face that overtops

Red stretcher-blankets momently

As it is carried in and stowed".

Larkin de-humanizes the people who have are dead, or who are dying as he no longer describes them as if they were humans and instead he describes them as objects. This quote also portrays a vivid image of someone dying as he describes the he describes it as a "wild white face". Larkin then goes onto using verbs such as "carried in and stowed" whch shows the body being put away into darkness until the funeral. Larkin also uses passive words to emphasize that they are no longer human. Once again Larkin uses demotic, everyday vocabulary maintain that casualness of human existence, but it also shows that death is a casual thing that happens in people's lives.

"the solving emptiness

That lies just under all we do".

Here, Larkin is saying that death under-grinds our actions in every day life and it culminates in death. This presents the reader with an image of someone's grave as people walk by it every day. the "solving emptiness" could may as well be the corpses that are lying underneath the ground we walk on. The fact that Larkin calls death the "solving emptiness" implies that Larkin sees death as the end to all of our problems in life.Death is all around is whether we know it or not and as dark as that sounds, that how Larkin seems to think.

"The fastened doors recede".
This is a metaphor for the final transition from life to death.

"At last begin to loosen".

Here Larkin is talking about the ties of life loosening and so the aspects of life begin to fall apart when someone dies, but instead of completely falling apart, these aspects only begin to unravel.

If anyone has any suggestions that they could make about any of the quotes I've picked out, then it would be great. It would also be interesting to see how different/similar your perceptions of the poem might be to compared to mine.

Lara.

'Red Balloon' by Dannie Abse - analysis.

Analysis of 'Red Balloon' by Dannie Abse.

Summary.

Abse uses the 'Red Balloon' as a symbolism of his Judaism and at the beginning we see the balloon going through some sort of journey of its own, drifting from place to place: "It sailed across the startled town, over chapels, over chimney-pots, wind-blown above a block of flats". Abse then goes onto to writing about he came across this balloon that had been drifting all around and suddenly it just happened to land where Abse was standing. However, in this poem we are also introduced to the people who ridicule his faith and those are the same people who are wanting to burst this fragile red balloon which actually plays a significant part in bringing together he meaning of not just the poem, but also Abse's struggles in life being a Jew. Abse shows that this poem is personal to him as he writes in first person but also he uses his childhood experiences is key because it is all pretty personal when someone talks about their childhood in such detail in the way that Abse does in this poem. The poem ends with the balloon staying as it was when it was first found and it doesn't burst despite the boys trying to purposefully burst it which is also symbolic and something to consider and look into in depth.

Key themes: Pride and prejudice, isolation, identity and religion. 

Significant quotes.

"it was my shame, it was my joy. it brought me notoriety". 

Here, Abse uses possessive pronouns so the red balloon has a sense of belonging and some sort of identity of its own. Abse then continues this repetition of the use of the possessive pronouns: "my balloon, my red balloon". Abse uses the red balloon as symbol of his "shame", "joy" and "notoriety" that it brings to him. However, as a whole, the red balloon symbolizes Abse's faith and it embodies how being  a Jew in that society, brought prejudice towards him but also pride and happiness. The red balloon also seems to be the only thing through out the whole poem that is bright and vivid as Abse depicts the balloon standing out from everyone in the poem because of the colour red. Red of course could symbolize many things but to me the colour red symbolizes strength, boldness, blood and confidence - the blood being the blood of a Jew.

"soared higher like a happiness towards the dark blue sky".

One of the obvious themes that Abse explores in this poem is pride and prejudice. In this quote, Abse uses a simile to reflect how he feel having found the red balloon. Here Abse is also saying that his faith in Judaism is what brings him that pride and happiness that everyone aspires to have.

"some unsheathed their dirty knives; some lunged, some clawed at my balloon, but still it would not burst".
A group of boys during Abse'd childhood, try to take that pride away however as we see them trying to burst the balloon in a brutal way despite only being just kids. It may well be said that the children's behaviour in this particular section of the poem is rather savage-like. However, the fact that such a fragile object doesn't burst at all represents Abse's strong belief in faith and so here, Abse's faith is seen as something that not only built his identity, but something that can make him feel secure and give him a sense of belonging. Also, because the balloon doesn't burst, could maybe show that actually Abse was protecting his precious and fragile red balloon.

"That I'm a Jew is true...that cannot be denied".
This just simply shows Abse standing up for his beliefs. This is said by Abse with such strong confidence and assurance that it makes him feel like the bigger person in the situation. The fact that Abse is not denying the fact that he is a Jew shows that he is proud of who he has grown up to be. Also, the language used by Abse here is defensive towards the comments that the boys make.


"Your red balloon's a Jew's balloon, let's get it circumcised".

This is obviously a comment that the group of boys make and I do have that this is rather degrading and vulgar. The group of boys here are referring to the tradition of Judaism where a boy is circumcised and when it is said by the boys it is mocking that tradition. Isolation is also portrayed in this quotation. The fact that a Jew has hold of the red balloon seems to suddenly set them apart in a negative way, but also the balloon is seen as an object that is looked down on and cursed at just because it is a "Jew's balloon". The theme of isolation is also portrayed when Abse writes about one of the boys stating the red balloon was "stained with our dear Lord's blood".  Now, what one of the boys is really saying here is that Judaism only seems to be an imitation of Christianity and that for the boys seems insulting but he could also be speaking on behalf of other Christians from that time in society where Judaism was looked down o by many.When the boys says "our dear Lord's blood", he is referring to Christianity and not Judaism and so he is seen as isolating Jews from Christians and making them seem like religions that conflict with each other.

'Love Songs in Age' first impressions.

First impressions on 'Love Songs in Age' by Philip Larkin.

Summary and very brief analysis.

'Love Songs in Age' is about 'her', who I assume is Larkin's mother, coming across music sheets that have been left lying around untouched until that one day that she decides to relearn the music on the music sheet. Memories of her youth are then triggered as the widow plays "each frank submissive chord". As she continues to play the music this seems to give her control and although the mother cannot control what has happened in the past, she can control the music and the rhythm at which it is played. 

The listing device that is used in stanza one shows the sentiment that the song has as each one seems to back back a memory: "One marked in circles...One mended...And coloured, by her daughter, till, in widowhood She found them". Larkin personifies the sheet of music to show that the widow was meant to come across the sheet of music, as if that moment was its destiny eventhough it was accidental. 

In the second stanza, there is a sense of re-birth and the past coming back to life as she continues to play each note. It's not the past in general that comes back to life but it is her youth that she is re-living through the music. This idea of her youth being revisited is conveyed when Larkin writes about "unfailing sense of being young" and "that hidden freshness" that she has not felt since she was young. 

This piece of music may well be a love song either written for her or by her during her youth. I say that it is a love song because love could be seen by some, as something that makes us feel young and it is the thing that most memories in life stem from. 

In the third and final stanza of the poem, we see a false hope and potential that the music is expected to bring as it is "still promising to solve, and satisfy". A sense of mortality is also depicted in this poem as something is waiting to happen - maybe someone else for her to love in her life as she did when she was young. However, the message at the end of the poem contradicts her happiness during her youth and "It had not done so then, and could not now". This refers to how love promises so much but fails to deliver its promises. The poem as a whole shows how attitudes change over time as we grow old. Also, although people can love unconditionally, time is very limited and so the poem is also saying that we should be conscious about the things and people we truly love in life because life is short as "That certainty of time is laid up in store". 

First impressions.

Again this is another poem by Larkin that I have thoroughly enjoyed reading and studying in Literature. Having studied previous Larkin poems where he is skeptical about life, I did get the impression that Larkin did have something good to say about love and life after all. However, that impression that I first got didn't go any further as I soon realized that Larkin believed that love does not satisfy or solve your problems in life. It didn't really surprise or shock me when Larkin ended the poem the way he did, in fact I would've been more surprised if Larkin decided to end 'Love Songs in Age' having a very positive view on love as I feel would like that wouldn't be Larkin. 

It seems to me, that it is one of Larkin's habits to end his poems with a philosophical thought and it definitely is something that really does bring the whole poem into perspective as well as other poems that I have studied. Personally, I think Larkin really has a very creative way of putting words together so things are seen from a certain perspective and in different lights.

'A Scene from Married Life' by Dannie Abse - brief analysis.

'A Scene from Married Life' .

Summary.

There is no question about what this poem by Abse really is about, but it isn't just any marriage to Abse - It's his marriage and the struggles that he and his wife Joan have experienced as a married couple. Abse writes this poem so that any married couple can also connect to Abse and his marriage which just shows that the poet is a normal everyday husband that enjoys writing poems in his free time and being a doctor for most of his living days. The poem is left as an open ending so the reader can guess what happens after the couple kiss and make up and I do have to say that it is rather predictable what happens next... 

Key themes and ideas.

One of the key themes in this poem is the struggles and difficulties in a marriage that has endured and will continue to endure for the years yet to come. Abse mentions the "squabble" he had with his wife and how the two would offend the other purposefully by using "fast, barbed words that made the other squirm". The fact that Abse describes the words as being "fast" and "barbed" suggests that they were harsh insults that they both felt the need to quickly get off their chest.This depicts a normal couple arguing and I almost find it quite comical how the other seems to be provoked to say something more offensive than the other, it's almost as if they are competing for who can be the most offensive. The comical side of this is that the nature of this argument seems childlike as children usually try to offend the other more than they have been offended just to prove that they can take an insult. This idea is reinforced when Abse describes the other feeling a "flushed indignation, verbal revenge". This shows that whatever one said to the other, the one being criticized begins to have a fury build up inside them probably making their cheeks go red as they get a feeling of strong displeasure of the insulting comment made by the other. This therefore seems to lead to a feeling of strong anger to be aroused within them which provokes them into getting revenge verbally and saying something worse!

The atmosphere of the poems begins to change after his argument with his wife as Abse physically removes himself from the escalating tension between the two. Significantly, Abse begins to look out to the "far dank confusion of the sea and sky in resentful wedlock". This depicts Abse reflecting on the insults and the "fast barbed words" that he and his wife exchanged out of anger. Abse describes seeing the "confusion of the sea and sky" shows that the argument is now all a blur and a big mess as he reflects on it. I also find it interesting how Abse uses the sky and the sea as a metaphor for their marriage as he describes the two elements being in a "resentful wedlock".

The "monstrous Tusker Rock" is a representation of their strong and worthy relationship and the bond they have built over the years, despite all the insults that thrown at each other. However, Abse also explores the theme of mystery and the fact that the rock is "crammed with ghosts" implies that the couple have gone through more difficult times in the past. The "ghosts" shows that the couple's past is haunted by things in the past that have tried to break their marriage or could it suggest that one has been unfaithful to the other? the depiction of the ghosts of the past could also be linked to those seagulls that "drifted above it like lost thoughts of the damned". This gives the idea that both Abse and his wife Joan have questions of their own about the other that haven't been answered. The atmosphere in this particular section is therefore enigmatic and we as readers also develop questions and wonders of our own about what the ghosts of the past could possibly be an embodiment of.

As the poem progresses into a better light, Abse begins to compare his married life to a "B movie to enact my great climactic scene". This gives the impression that that is what Abse wants his married life to be like - full of adventure, excitement and mystery. However this shows that maybe Abse isn't satisfied with the life he has and so he would want to live his life like the characters from an adventure movie. This is seen ass thought provoking hallucination that Abse has to distract him from the fact that he is going through a difficult time in his marriage.

In stanza 6, we see Abse coming to realize how much his wife and their marriage truly means to him. We see Abse snap out of his desire to want to live a different life in a B movie and he finally comes to look past what really is behind all the the anger.

"I swivelled for a last winsome longshot, saw

on the high cliff my wife dressed in blue and all

the best of the world true and desirable.

With surrendering waves I crawled to shore."

In this stanza Abse now explores the theme of explores one big theme of truth, sincerity and forgiveness. Here, Abse's wife Joan is seen in a blue dress and the colour blue symbolizes calmness and peace which could show that the argument between the two has now come to a halt, for now. Maybe the fact that Abse pictures his wife beautifully dressed in blue could have been what made Abse realize that in reality, he desires nothing more true and sincere than his wife and their marriage. As he "crawled to shore" shows that Abse is the one is on the floor apologizing and hoping to have forgiveness.

In stanza seven, Abse talks about how insignificant their arguments were compared to the love they both have for each other and their children as he looks back to this particular scene of their married lives. He describes their past arguments and their "own cold cars during the real Cold War" as being "few and brief" which shows that the couple didn't dwell on the difficulties of their marriage. The best poems tell simple stories on the surface, but if you really delve in to the meanings of the poem you can see much more and 'A Scene from Married Life' is definitely a poem that does this.

'The Malham Bird' - Dannie Abse

'The Malham Bird'.

Summary.

Abse writes about the couple's youth and reminisces back to the happy memories they had together before children. 'The Malham Bird' is a simple, loving and angelic poem that was written by Abse for his wife Joan. It is about a "Gentile and a Jew" falling in love and ending up spending the rest of their lives together with children of their own who have given Abse and Joan three grandchildren.

Key themes and brief ideas.

Abse begins the poem by referring back to the idea that a person of a non-Jewish nation should not fall in love or marry a Jew. In the first stanza, Abse shows off a bit of his  sense of humour when he jokes about a non-Jewish woman (his wife) and him being in love as he says:

 "no morning News announced the great world had been reinvented and we were new, in love - you a Gentile and I a Jew!"

Here, Abse is saying that even though they were of different religious faiths, they were in love and nothing was to be done about that, despite them going against the central principle of society during that time period of prejudice. The fact that Abse describes the "great world" being "reinvented" shows that Abse and his wife Joan, were one of the first couples from different backgrounds to be in love and weren't ashamed that they were in love. "reinvented" suggests that a Jew and a non-Jew being in love was some sort of revolution within their society which some people had a hard time to accept and understand.

Of course, one of the themes explored in 'The Malham Bird' is love that Abse has for his wife, youth and memories. We clearly see that this poems is very personal between Abse and Joan as he even says "Dear wife" as if he is having talking to her in person which makes the tone conversational but still very detailed and significant. Abse also describes their holiday at the "hidden beach in Wales" as "illicit" which meanings doing something that is not allowed by law or doing activities that are not considered morally acceptable. This therefore shows that it wouldn't have been acceptable for a couple like Joan and Abse to go on a holiday as lovers as it wouldn't have been socially acceptable. As the poem progresses, Abse continues with the theme of the growing love between him and Joan. This is shown when he describes "two chalk lines kiss and slowly disappear" which is representative of the couple. This explored furthermore when the couple are "more than together" which shows emphasizes how close the couple really were and still are. It implies that not only were the two madly in love and closer than ever, but they saw themselves as one instead of two different people from different backgrounds.

Abse then juxtaposes to the present tense "Now, three grandchildren later" he and his wife are still happily in love. This juxtaposition is done to make the reader compare how much his life has changed since his youth with his wife. The "black feathered bird, the malham of Eden" is said to be a Jewish legend who obeyed the commandment of not eating the forbidden fruit and so therefore it lives forever in paradise and stayed "lonely, immortal". Here, I get the impression that Abse sees himself as the Malham bird in the poem as he is a true, faithful Jew who is now lonely because he has experienced the unfortunate loss of his wife. Yet, he still remains "lonely, immortal".

Abse also juxtaposes to the present tense "Now, three grandchildren later" he and his wife are still happily in love. This juxtaposition is done to make the reader compare how much his life has changed since his youth with his wife. The "black feathered bird, the malham of Eden" is said to be a Jewish legend who obeyed the commandment of not eating the forbidden fruit and so therefore it lives forever in paradise and stayed "lonely, immortal". Here, I get the impression that Abse sees himself as the Malham bird in the poem as he is a true, faithful Jew who is now lonely because he has experienced the unfortunate loss of his wife. Yet, he still remains faithful and feels immortal despite all the the things in his life he has been through because of being a Jew.

Links to other Larkin poems.

'Talking In Bed'.

Larkin also explores the theme of enduring love in this poem as it is also simply about a young couple, like Abse and Joan,who are in love. Larkin portrays the couple in bed as being intimate and close together which creates a sense of comfort that all couples should have when around each other. Similarly, we see this in 'The Malham Bird' by Abse when he and Joan are "more than together" as they lay together on the sand looking up at the sky. It is not indicated that Abse and his partner make any communication and so this also is illuminated by 'Talking In Bed' as the couple also don't communicate which implies that words aren't enough to describe the love both of the couples have for each other at those very moments.